In-Person Sales for Introverted Equine Photographers: You Don't Have to Be a Salesperson

My fellow photographers always laugh when I tell them I'm an introvert. They follow up by telling me I must the be the "most extroverted introvert ever".

And, in a way, it's true.

I can totally "be on" when needed. But afterwards? I might need a three-day silent retreat to recover. When I travel for events, I will seriously crawl into a hole when I get home and hide behind my computer for several days.

Listen, I became a horse photographer because I love horses. Then somebody forgot to mention how much talking to people would be involved.

If you're an introverted equine photographer, you may know exactly what I mean.

Photographing the horse? Absolutely.

Spending an hour talking to someone about their horse? Also fine.

Walking into an appointment knowing you're supposed to sell something?

Hard pass.

Years ago, the thought of in-person sales made me incredibly uncomfortable. I didn't want to be pushy. I didn't want to sound like a salesperson. And I definitely didn't want to sit across from someone feeling like I had to convince them to spend money.

But I also knew what I needed my photography business to look like.

My life required me to have fewer clients with higher sales rather than photographing a huge volume of sessions. In-person sales wasn't just something I decided to try because other photographers were doing it. It was part of building a business model that could actually work with my life.

So I had to figure it out.

And if that's where you are right now, here's the good news:

You don't need a personality transplant to get better at in-person sales.

You need a process you trust.

You Don't Have to Become an Extrovert to Sell

Somewhere along the way, a lot of us got the idea that good salespeople are naturally outgoing people who can talk to anybody about anything.

That can make in-person sales sound slightly horrifying when you'd rather be behind the camera talking to the horse.

But being good at sales doesn't require you to become louder, more outgoing, or more comfortable working a room.

And you definitely don't need to channel your inner used-car salesperson.

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What you actually need to be able to do is listen.

Ask questions. Pay attention to the answers. Understand what matters to your client. Know your products well enough to make recommendations. And be comfortable helping someone make a decision.

You don't have to dominate the conversation. In fact, you probably shouldn't.

If your client is telling you that the photograph of her daughter with the horse she's had since she was twelve is incredibly important to her, that's information you need to hear. You don't need to immediately launch into a sales pitch.

Listen.

Then help her figure out what she wants to do with that photograph.

That's sales too.

The Sale Starts Long Before the Ordering Appointment

One of the best ways to make an ordering appointment less awkward is to stop expecting the ordering appointment to do all the work.

Your client shouldn't walk in with absolutely no idea what's about to happen.

By then, she should already understand that she'll be choosing photographs and purchasing artwork. She should have some idea of the products you offer and what she might expect to spend. And ideally, you've already had conversations about what she's drawn to and where she might want to enjoy the photographs in her home.

Those conversations can start before you ever pick up the camera.

Maybe during the consultation you ask whether she has a big empty wall she'd love to fill. Maybe she tells you she wants something for the living room. Maybe there's one particular horse she's dreamed of having photographed for years.

Pay attention to those things.

You're not collecting ammunition for a sales pitch.

You're learning what matters to your client so you can help her later.

Good client communication makes the entire sales process easier because there are fewer surprises.

If the first time your client discovers you sell wall art is when you pull out a sample during the ordering appointment, you've made your job harder than it needed to be.

And honestly, if you've communicated well from the beginning, the client shouldn't have hired you without understanding that the end result of this process is products.

That's important.

You're not sitting down at the ordering appointment hoping you can somehow talk someone into buying something. You're sitting down with a client who already knew how your business worked and chose to hire you.

That takes a lot of pressure off the sale.

Give Yourself a Roadmap

If sales makes you nervous, don't wing it.

Seriously.

You don't get extra points for improvising the entire appointment while a client is sitting across from you waiting to see what happens next.

Know your process.

What happens when the client arrives? Do you talk for a few minutes first? How will you show the photographs? Will you show a slideshow? How will you narrow down favorites? When do you start talking about products? How do you help them compare sizes? What happens when they're ready to order?

That's where having a script can help, especially when you're starting out.

And when I say script, I don't mean memorizing some painfully polished sales speech that sounds nothing like you.

Think of it more like a roadmap.

Know the important things you want to cover. Know the questions you need to ask. Know how you're going to move from looking at photographs into talking about products.

Eventually, you'll probably stop thinking about the roadmap because you've done the process enough times that it feels natural.

Until then, use it.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being prepared.

Let Your Products Do Some of the Talking

If you sell physical products, samples make in-person sales so much easier.

A client may have no idea what a 20x30 piece of wall art actually looks like.

Honestly, a lot of photographers aren't great at visualizing print sizes either until they've seen them in a real space.

Let your client see the products. Let her hold an album. Let her see the difference between finishes. Show her what different sizes actually look like instead of expecting her to understand numbers on a price list.

And if there's a product you genuinely love, talk about why.

Your enthusiasm doesn't need to turn into a sales pitch.

Maybe you love a particular wall-art finish because of the way it handles the rich colors in a horse's coat. Maybe you like a certain album because it works beautifully for telling the story of a horse-and-rider session. Maybe there's a product you have hanging in your own home.

Tell them.

It's much easier to talk naturally about something you actually believe in.

And remember that your client isn't buying a 24x36 rectangle.

She's buying a photograph of her horse.

That's a very different thing.

You Don't Need a Fancy Studio

I have done in-person sales in all kinds of places.

Clients' homes. Rental spaces. Coffee shops.

And yes, even a rainy park pavilion.

Because obviously the sky knows exactly when you're trying to conduct an important sales appointment.

You do not need a gorgeous studio with a giant television, designer furniture, and perfect lighting before you're allowed to start selling photographs in person.

Would some of those things be nice? Sure.

But they're not the thing that makes the appointment work.

You need a space where you and your client can comfortably look at photographs, talk about products, make decisions, and complete the order without fighting a marching band for the table next to you.

If that's your studio, great.

If it's the client's home, also great.

In fact, meeting in a client's home can have an advantage because the walls are right there. You can actually see the space you're helping them fill.

Use what works for your business and your clients.

When You Don't Know What to Say, Ask About the Horse

This may be the easiest sales advice I can give an equine photographer.

If you're nervous, the conversation gets awkward, or you simply need a second to collect your thoughts...

Ask about the horse.

Seriously.

Ask how their last show went. Ask how long they've owned him. Ask whether he's recovered from whatever ridiculous injury he managed to acquire in the pasture. Ask what treat he would commit crimes for.

You're talking to an equestrian.

This is not going to be a short answer.

And that's a good thing.

You're not trying to distract the client or manipulate the conversation. You're talking about something you both genuinely care about.

It gives you a second to settle back into the conversation, and it reminds you that this isn't some scary sales appointment with a capital S.

It's a conversation with another horse person about photographs of a horse she loves.

You know how to do that.

Plan Around Your Social Battery

Even when you enjoy your clients, talking to people can be tiring.

If you're introverted, you probably already know this about yourself.

So work with it.

Maybe you don't want to schedule three ordering appointments back-to-back. Maybe you'd rather schedule one and give yourself a little space afterward.

Or maybe you're the opposite. You'd rather put all of your ordering appointments on the same day, stay in people mode for a while, and then recover in peace afterward.

Both are fine.

You may want time before an appointment to review your notes and get yourself mentally ready. You may need ten minutes afterward before you jump into the next thing.

Build that into your schedule.

You own the business.

You're allowed to create a sales process that works with your energy instead of pretending your energy doesn't matter.

The same thing applies to the rest of your schedule, especially if you're running your equine photography business from home.

What If They Say No?

This is one of the things that makes sales uncomfortable for a lot of photographers.

What if you recommend the larger piece and they say no?

First, remember what we talked about earlier. If you've done your job with communication before the session, this client didn't hire you without knowing that she would eventually be purchasing products.

So a no at the ordering appointment doesn't necessarily mean no to buying.

Maybe it's no to the 30x40.

Maybe it's no to the album right now.

Maybe the final sale isn't as large as you hoped it would be.

That's okay.

That's also why your equine photography pricing needs to be built around realistic averages and your overall business model, not the assumption that every client will make your dream purchase.

And here's something I've learned after doing this for a long time:

No doesn't necessarily mean no forever. Sometimes it just means not right now.

I've had a client come back five years later and order a 30x40 because she moved into a new house and finally had the perfect place for it.

I've had clients who wanted to pay cash, so they purchased what they were comfortable buying at the ordering appointment. Then they came back six months later and bought more.

And six months after that?

They bought more again.

The relationship with your client doesn't necessarily end when the ordering appointment ends.

Circumstances change. People move. They redecorate. They realize how much they love seeing the artwork they already purchased. They decide they want another piece.

That's another reason I don't want sales to feel like a high-pressure, buy-it-right-now-or-else situation.

Help the client make the right decision for her today.

Take care of her.

Deliver something she loves.

She knows where to find you later.

Sales Is Helping Someone Decide

This is the biggest shift I made in the way I think about in-person sales.

I'm not trying to convince someone to buy something they don't want.

I'm helping them decide what they do want.

Those are very different things.

Your client hired you because photographs of her horse matter to her. She went through the session. She chose outfits. She may have hired a barn girl to bathe and groom her horse to absolute perfection so there wasn't a speck of dirt anywhere to be found.

She has invested in this experience.

Now your job is to help her take the photographs you created together and decide what she wants to do with them.

Maybe that's a large piece of wall art.

Maybe it's an album.

Maybe it's a collection of smaller pieces.

You're there because you know your products, you understand scale, you've seen what works, and you can help her make choices that would be much harder if you simply emailed a gallery and said, “Good luck!”

That's not being pushy.

That's providing a service.

You Don't Need a New Personality

If you're an introverted horse photographer, in-person sales may never become your favorite part of running a photography business.

That's okay.

You don't have to love sales.

And you definitely don't have to become someone else to be good at it.

For me, learning to do in-person sales meant I could build the kind of photography business my life required: fewer clients with higher sales.

Your reasons may be different.

If you're trying to figure out what business model make sense for your goals, your clients, and the life you actually want, that's also something we can work through in one-on-one photography business mentoring.

But whatever business model you choose, it needs to work with your life rather than simply copying what another photographer says you're supposed to do.

Give yourself a process you trust. Set expectations before the ordering appointment. Know your products. Listen more than you talk. Make recommendations when they're helpful. Give yourself time to get comfortable doing it.

It gets easier.

And if the conversation ever gets awkward and your brain suddenly forgets every useful thing you've ever known about sales?

Ask about the horse.

Works every time.